words are meant to deceive, but God has made the normal human face such, that until forced upon it shall never deceive people and that is why many a times your words may help you win but the expressions on the face stoops you down.
When any unforeseen situation occurs in life, its always our expression which gives out our actual emotions, because no school teaches kids to hide feelings, but as we grow, we end up learning this new new art , some master it and some lose it out and others, well they just play along.
Instances which I cud experience along in my life actually gave me the idea that the art of deceiving is now so beautifully built into us that we seldom realize it.
My dear friend recently bid good bye to his mom for that one last time as she scaled greater heights(heaven in this case), for a day he was shattered but as life had it, he had to overcome the feeling and as people visited home to pay their condolences, he had now stopped crying -externally-, not that he dint miss His mom, but, now he had to stay up for his younger sister and others who could not hold back their emotions and cried in vain.
For everybody who cared and asked his health and his present status, all he would say is "Badhiya hain"( I m keeping good, in Hindi ), but the sheen & the glow on his face was not to be seen now. When left alone he could run deep down in thoughts but when asked "Kya soch raha hain be..?" (Wats on your mind dude), there would be a plain simple answer, "Nothing..!", clearly contradicting to the expressions on his face.
Many a times it just so happens that we don't realize, what we talk does not go hand in hand with what we express with our face-hands and other gestures.
Even simple day to day conversations, can leave you a little perplexed, when it is made aware to you that someone has been actually noticing your expressions and also judges you on your reaction than your words..
When any unforeseen situation occurs in life, its always our expression which gives out our actual emotions, because no school teaches kids to hide feelings, but as we grow, we end up learning this new new art , some master it and some lose it out and others, well they just play along.
Instances which I cud experience along in my life actually gave me the idea that the art of deceiving is now so beautifully built into us that we seldom realize it.
My dear friend recently bid good bye to his mom for that one last time as she scaled greater heights(heaven in this case), for a day he was shattered but as life had it, he had to overcome the feeling and as people visited home to pay their condolences, he had now stopped crying -externally-, not that he dint miss His mom, but, now he had to stay up for his younger sister and others who could not hold back their emotions and cried in vain.
For everybody who cared and asked his health and his present status, all he would say is "Badhiya hain"( I m keeping good, in Hindi ), but the sheen & the glow on his face was not to be seen now. When left alone he could run deep down in thoughts but when asked "Kya soch raha hain be..?" (Wats on your mind dude), there would be a plain simple answer, "Nothing..!", clearly contradicting to the expressions on his face.
Many a times it just so happens that we don't realize, what we talk does not go hand in hand with what we express with our face-hands and other gestures.
Even simple day to day conversations, can leave you a little perplexed, when it is made aware to you that someone has been actually noticing your expressions and also judges you on your reaction than your words..
